Only 8 out of 24 passed and we went forward to the next level. It was the Product Training. We were joined with other batches and the group was divided into 3 sections. When I found out I'd be in the same section with him because it was alphabetical, I was really disappointed because we're not close. So 6 of our batch mates were in the other section.
Since I have no choice, we sat together and that's the time we started really talking with each other. All he would do inside the training room when the trainer's not around was to sleep. But we're eating together during break and lunch and going home together. We started texting each other. At first, he's just forwarding quotes or jokes to me.
I had an ex-boyfriend of 7 years then and we're supposed to get married in May of 2008. I was excited with my upcoming marriage with my ex when I started feeling different with my current boyfriend/fiance. I did not know how it started but he was the first one to fall in love with me. I knew I was not his type. He's very good looking. A lot of people had a crush on him, even our trainer. When I checked his Friendster account then, I found out that a lot of students and even a teacher had a crush on him in High School.
So I thought he's a playboy and he would not take me seriously. I was having doubts on him and I said to myself I was already getting married with my man of my dreams. It was just a thought but my relationship with my ex was in the rocks. I always cried everyday and my boyfriend/fiance was the one to comfort me. He would always make me laugh. Until now, he's got a very great sense of humor.
Anyway, going back to my impression on him, I remember he told me that a lot of girls mistook his doings most of the time because they thought he's courting them. This was in High School. He's very gentleman though not an expressive guy. So I told myself that he won't like me. Especially I'm overweight. I knew he liked girls who had a white complexion and had small, Chinese eyes. I knew I had both but I was not sexy. He made me his bestfriend but I didn't think anything about all the things he'd done for me because of what he said.
So we went on our lives through the training and as bestfriends too. Everyday we would meet up somewhere so we can go to work together. We would be together during breaks and lunch. He would buy me a sandwich and I always brought him his favorite lasagna from Greenwich. We would listen to songs using my cell phone. One earphone for me and one for him.
Our batchmates would always tease us. They thought we're lovers but we would tell them we're best of friends.
After a few weeks of being best friends, I wondered why and I always asked myself why would this man do these things for me? I was really confused at the time. He was 21, I was 26. He was young and handsome and I was older and fat.
I thought I was not his type. I thought he's just playing but I found out that he's really an honest person. He's a quiet type of guy since childhood. He's got lots of friends at home but he really doesn't talk much. He doesn't like to dance and doesn't like sports. We really got lots of things in common. Most of the foods we liked to eat were the same. I found out he has no girlfriend for about 4 years back then and he had never experienced having a long term relationship. Because he hated girls who were so jealous and nagging him all the time. So all his past relationships only lasted for a few months.
One time he told me he really wanted to experience having a long term relationship and I told him maybe he's too choosy. I don't know but everytime I was with him, I was really happy.
He finally confessed his love for me after 2 months of being bestfriends. I found out that he didn't want to express his feelings to me because he didn't want to ruin my relationship of 7 years with my ex.
It was his first time to fall in love with a girl and I realized that falling in love was different from loving a person. I knew I loved my ex but I was never been in love with him. It's also my first time to fall in love with a man and it's with my fiance. It's such a great feeling. It felt like we're in Heaven. We don't argue (until a year later). He predicted that we would last longer that his past relationships. It was so true. We're now going to 4 years and he had changed a lot without me asking him to do so. His family and friends would attest to it.
He became more mature and he's very loyal to me. He's more interested with food than girls. It was also his first time to gain weight and I was proud of it. He's not overweight but I made him healthier. I am lucky to have him and a lot of girls envy me. Some were wondering why he had chosen me.
Well, let me tell you. I may be not his type because of my body but I am beautiful in his eyes. I don't brag about it but I am proud and I just tell it to myself, never to anyone. This is my first time to let out my feelings.
What I am proud most about myself is my personality. I don't get jealous eventhough a lot of girls asked for his cell number or talked to him. That is because I am never insecure. Love is patient and kind, not boastful or envious or jealous according to the Bible right? And also, I am not a nagging person. Which he hated so much about a girl. And I think most men too.
He had chosen me because he said my actions were automatic. I had provided him all the things he needed without him asking for it. It's the same with me. He made so much efforts for me and for our relationship. No man has ever done those things for me. Even my ex. My fiance really made me feel valuable, loved, and a lot more.
He comforted me when I have problems at work or anything. He gave me all his time rather than his friends.
I had been with serious relationships before but this is the first time I feel great about it. We're still in love at the present time and he still loves me for who I am right now. I may not look like a celebrity or a model, but I feel that I am the girl of his dreams. I feel beautiful and sexy when I am with him.
Source: http://loveadviceforum.com/love-stories-30/my-beautiful-love-story-1903/
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